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Tips for better SEX

hayjack1 — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:32:20 +0000

Here are a few tips for better sex, a good sex life takes time and effort to maintain. It is important to add a few more stimulating aspects to your sex life to keep things interesting.
Blindfold her. Sexual pleasure has many dimensions but the most important sexual organ we have is our brain. Blindfolding your partner increase her sensory awareness. She doesn’t know where you are or what you are going to do next. This creates anticipation for better sex – the tease. Tease her mercilessly with a sensory object such as feathers your tongue, start off softly and slowly as this excites her nerve endings and makes them far more sensitive.
Give her instructions
After a while you may think you know how to please your partner in every way, but this is very rarely true. There is always something you haven’t tried. For better sex have a lesson from your partner so that you are at each others mercy. Talk about the things you haven’t tried but would like to, choose a suggestion from each partner and get down and dirty. Put yourself in the students chair for a while for better sex you won’t regret it.
Massage
Sensual touch is one of the most highly relaxing and sexy things you can do for your partner. A relaxing sensual massage can unlock the body to some very intense orgasms and much better sex. The ability to relax your partner in this way should be high on your list of skills to master. A firm touch coupled with some sensory feather light caresses. Once you have relaxed her shoulders and back work you way down to her buttocks. Start to work on inner thighs, bottom and vagina.
Have her dress up
Stepping out of the role of being ‘yourself’ can be a fun way to give each other permission to behave differently for better sex. Playing the role of someone else during sexual plays is a very enjoyable way to give your partner some different sensations and to try things that you haven’t done before. It is usually the woman who does the dressing up simply because they enjoy it and the have the clothes, underwear and make up – but men can play too.
Tell her your fantasies
Talk about fantasies with your partner is a very conducive form of sex play. It increases communication with your partner. Keep it light to start with, sit back with a glass of wine and keep your clothes on – for now. Fantasy play can also be incorporated into a game, use your imagination and keep it sexy. Yes you may be surprised about what comes out!
Play a game. Get a pack of cards and play strip poker. Once you are both naked you can start on the really fun part. A loss means the other person gets to choose what action is performed on them by the loser. Time limits like one minute on a said action means that it is a prolonged game of seduction to the end. It will have you both clamoring to be both the winner and the loser.
Dirty talk
Talking dirty has turned people on for years. Because our brains are our largest sexual apparatus, we respond to the spoken word automatically especially when someone says our name. For better sex start off easy with neutral dirty-talk topic such as how you feel inside her, how much you are enjoying the act and what you want to do next. Dirty talk comes under the encouragement category when she sees that your like something very much she will be more interest in doing it more. The rawness of the sexual passion aroused with dirty talk is why it is so effective. Too much swearing and name calling can be a turn off. Try to stick to positive words and chances are the passion from you will ignite hers.
Try a new postiton
New postitions need a reasonably high level of arousal in your lover, so choose your time to strike a new pose.
There is no limit to the number of ways to have sex so use your imagination. Changing the location can dramatically change the position so consider trying different places and locations ie washing machine, beanbag, table. (see sexual positions)
Use a cock ring
Cock rings slow the drain of blood out of your erection and keeps the penis harder for longer. A very hard penis stimulate a womans inside much better that one getting soft around the edges. Cock rings ensure that you can maintain the pace without faltering for better sex. (see sex toys)
Try a new place
Sex in a new locale is definitely up there in exciting things to do for better sex. Take a drive somewhere secluded where you can be a bot risque. Whatever takes your fancy. There are a million and one different places to have sex other than your bed. For more sex tips and other sex ideas go the mynaughtydate.co.uk

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Sex Toys

hayjack1 — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 14:12:25 +0000

The most popular sex toys are designed to resemble human genitals and may be vibrating.
Vibrators are vibrating devices intended to pleasurably stimulate various parts of the body, vibrators intended for sexual use are often dildo-shaped, although they also come in a wide range of shapes, sizes allowing internal and external use. Penetrative vibrators usually measure twelve to eighteen centimeters (5-7 inches) in length and two to five centimeters (1-2 inches) wide often to mimic the size of the average penis.
Anal vibrators are designed to be inserted into the rectum to pleasure the prostate in men and give a feeling of fullness to women.
The G-spot vibrator is curved at one end to facilitate stimulation of the female G-spot, some are small and can fit onto a finger.
Bullet vibrators are small and bullet shaped vibrators that can be used for direct simulation or inserted into other sex toys to increase stimulation.
Vibrator wands such as the Hitachi Magic Wand are large vibrators that generally plug into a wall and are marketed as back massagers they are used for clitoral stimulation.
The Rabbit vibrator comprises of an insertable shaft which often has additional functionality such as rotation and internal beads or a thrusting action, attached to the shaft is a vibrating clitoral stimulator. For most rabbit vibrators this comes in the form of bunny ears which sit either side of the clitoris.
Glass dildos are not only durable and visually appealing they can be heated or chilled before use.
Penile Toys
Pocket pussies or vagina’s or masturbates are modeled to accept a penis for simulated intercourse. They can be shaped like vagina’s anuses, or anything with a hole for penetration
Cock Rings prolong male erection by with holding blood inside the penis, a man may wear a cock-ring to combat erectile difficulties or because the sensation of tightness and engorgement that wearing ones provide. Some models include a protruding clitoral stimulator, designed to stimulate the clitoris during sex. Other vibrate either vibrating the ring itself or in a popular Dolphin variant by using two removeable bullet vibrators to provide stimulation to both the testicles and clitoris. Some cock rings also have vibrators attached which can be worn to stimulate a partner during sex.
A triple crown is a special cock-ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. In orgasm the testicles usually retract towards the body before ejaculation. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensation of the orgasm by forcing the testicles to stay away from the body.
A cock harness is a more elaborate harness designed to be worn around the penis and scrotum. Its function is similar to that of a cock ring. These devices are often associated with BDSM activities such as cock and ball torture.
A ball lock is an ordinary padlock fastened around the male scrotum separating the testicles away from the penis and not removeable except by key or combination.
A penis sleeve is a cylindrical device that is placed on the shaft of the penis with the aim of increasing stimulation for the person being penetrated, they often have soft bumps intended to provide further stimulation.
A penis extension is a partially hollow device that is like a very short dildo with the hollow end placed on the end of the penis intended to increase the effective length of the penis.
A docking sleeve is a cylindrical device similar to a penis sleeve but is open at both ends so that two men can dock.

Nipple Toys – nipple clamp is used to stimulate the nipples by applying varying degrees of pressure.
Suction devices are generally either rubber or glass, fit around the nipple and cause nipples to become more sensitive due to engorgement.
Anal toys – butt plugs are often shorter than dildos intended for anal insertion, they are usually covered by condoms for hygienic reasons. There are butt plugs that ejaculate by squirting water or other viscous fluids into the rectum. There are also vibrating butt plugs, expanding ones with rotating beads and thrusting functions. Butt plugs can be moved in or out for pleasure for this type of activity ribbed butt plugs can increase pleasure.
Anal beads are balls or bumps on a string or a semi-rigid wand. They are inserted into the rectum and then removed with varying speeds, they can be uniformed of vary in size and number from three to eight.
Prostate Massage toys are specially curved toys that are designed to simulate the prostate.
Penetrative toys.
A dildo is a non-vibrating device which is used for sexual stimulation of the vagina or anus.
A double ended dildo is a long usually flexible dildo with both ends designed for penetration.
Ben Waballs are hollow metal balls inserted vaginally which can be worn inside the vagina for extended periods of time, the internal rolling enhance orgasms.
Kegel exercisers also known as vaginal barbells or jugglers are designed to improve muscle tone in the pelvic floor and can be used for sexual pleasure.
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Foreplay for Him

hayjack1 — Fri, 07 Aug 2009 14:51:46 +0000

Foreplay is an important and crucial part of the whole lovemaking process. It is defined as everything you do that comes before actual intercourse. A couple needs to spice up their sex life, get fully aroused and heighten pleasure.
Sometimes men need prolonged foreplay to get an erection. Foreplay for men is relatively simple and easy, the direct touching of the genitals usually does the trick. But for women who want to tantalize their men into submission remember these points to give him great foreplay:-
Visuals play a vital role, so sexy clothes would be a nice touch but giving him an unadulterated view of your body will be the hottest gift. Re-inforce this view with some steamy moves guaranteed to thrill, like giving him a strip tease.
Let your parted lips roam his body, like his stomach or chest, then slowly exhale. The rush of hot air will change the temperature in his skin and heighten his arousal.
Seize control and show your animal instinct. You’ll be surprised to know that men crave seduction as much as a woman and being aggressive is a sign of lust and that your as into it as he is.
Excite them with touch. Guys are especially touchy when they are between the sheets. Giving him a butt massages and long but gentle scratches up and down the back this will turn your man on.
Do what ever it is your doing to bring him to the brink, then ease up, not necessarily stopping but put off the good things for a while.
Make eye contact as you begin to lick the shaft of his penis. Most people focus fellatio on the penis, but the scrotum or balls shouldn’t be ignored. They are highly sensitive to even the softest touch, plus they are the source of great psychological power to a guy (so being nice to them can be thrilling and being not so nice to them can create a kind of scary-thrill). Try gently tapping on his scrotum with the pads of your fingers, you can also make a circle with your thumb and forefinger and grab the scrotum at the point where it meets his penis, gently pull down and away from his body. You can also use your fingers to massage the scrotum, again gently playing with the testicles.
The Perineum is the area between the scrotum and the anus and a lot of men enjoy having this area massaged during fellatio. Depending on his comfort level you might start with running your fingers up and down the area and then slowly start applying a bit of pressure. When you press deep in the middle of the area you are stimulating the prostate gland externally which is something else men find pleasurable.
Sucking or creating suction with your partners penis in your mouth will draw more blood into the penis than is already there. This creates a general feeling of pressure that many guys find highly pleasurable. Vary the sucking and the amount of pressure you create. Play with the difference between suction and with just the head of the penis in your mouth and doing so when you have the head and some of the shaft in your mouth. Be sure to vary the pressure and check you re not getting rough.
Deep throat is the practice of taking an entire penis into your mouth (this usually involves letting some of the penis pass into your throat) It is certainly something a lot of men like (although it is not clear if they like the physical stimulation or the idea that its happening) Most techniques to learn how to deep throat emphasize the importance of the giver being in control and learning to tame your gag reflex.
The anus is a site of enormous potential pleasure, filled with nerve endings and very sensitive to pressure and touch. Alot of straight guys have a hang up about anything being near their rear. When approached with caution and understanding of the anal safety using your finger to gently stoke or massage the outside of the anus can add huge amount of pleasure to fellatio. Even if you never venture further, the external stimulation alone can be mind blowing for guys who have never had it before.
Humming – Making noises when performing fellatio can be a turn on in two ways first it lets your partner know you’re enjoying yourself and they may be able to relax even more into the experience knowing you’re right there with them and not just doing out of obligation. Humming also creates a surprisingly strong vibration in your mouth.
Try to use at least two different kinds of stimulation together and ramp them up in intensity. This might mean stimulating two parts at the same time or moving up and down on one, for example take the penis into your mouth while gently stroking the outside of the anus. To find someone to do this with go to mynaughtydate.co.uk

Turn Her On By Using your Tongue

hayjack1 — Wed, 22 Jul 2009 11:57:45 +0000

The strongest muscle in your body is the Tongue which can make a women reach great heights of sexual ecstasy. Before you begin practicing on your woman start out by getting to know your tongue in the mirror, stick out your tongue and try to focus all your attention on the tip, try to make it come to a point. This will come in handy when you want to use force with it. Now try and expand your tongues width to the extreme. You can use your tongue to lick her lips softly, gently part them and find your way to her tongue. Then at some point use your lips and teeth. As well as her mouth, you can use your tongue to lick her earlobes – no salivating in her ear please, also use your pointed tongue to lick her neck and nibble with your teeth and finally suck with your lips in order to fully arouse, also do this to the back of her neck and in no time she will be attacking you, in a good way of course.
Now we going onto the the female body exploration, you start by licking between her breasts, lick between her chest with your hardened tongue and slowly let your tongue relax, keep on lightly licking her breasts until you reach her nipples at which point you will begin your sensual torture on her.
Move over her nipple so lightly that she can feel your warm breath, then make it pointed and a little more aggressive, use your fingers to rub the other nipple so it does not get left out. Even holding her breasts with your hands yet licking them softly with your tongue will drive her crazy, try different things, to find out what she likes.
You could try laying her on her stomach and use your tongue to slowly inch your way down her spine, once you are at the bottom of her back work your way back up going from one side to the other, using your tongue and lips to suck up her skin. Spread her legs and begin licking the inside of her thighs. After teasing her body its likely that when you finally reach her bottom lips she’ll be soaked enough to provide your mouth with plenty of lubrication.
Bring your tongue to a hard point and use only the tip to lick the clitoris gently, slowly inch you way down, licking her lips on either side, then stop and use your tongue to lick her inner thighs again, just for a moment. When you work your way back to her vagina expand your tongue and lick her from the bottom of her Virgina straight up to her clitoris. With the back of your tongue go back down. When you reach the opening harden your tongue and begin to make love to her. Remember don’t restrict yourself to any body part, move all over, using your tongue to taste, test and tantalize her body. Good Licking!! To find someone to lick with go to mynaughtydate.co.uk

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A mans idea of Foreplay

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Orgasms

hayjack1 — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 11:35:33 +0000

Most women would like to have an orgasm, and all women would love to have multiple orgasms. What happens in a woman’s body during a climax is similar to a male body when it ejaculates, there is a feeling of increasing excitement when everything blows in a great blast of ecstasy. Many woman can come again often within a minute or two after reaching their first orgasms, this usually takes the help of a skilled lover. Men need to realise that a females climaxes are not mechanical and most, not all need the following to get them in the mood!
A romantic atmosphere
Clean, pleasant comfortable surroundings
a partner they really like
a feeling of being wanted and appreciated
a good flow of natural lubrication
a skilled partner who knows how to stimulate the clitoris
The above is a good start, and bear in mind that sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm as all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers, mouth toys etc.
Women are not all the same all have their likes and dislikes, many woman like more foreplay and loveplay and to know that the man is keen on giving pleasure not just taking it and in a hurry to have his own climax.
Helpful hints
Dont be in a rush
Talk to your partner and see what they want
Create a romantic atmosphere with everything comfortable and nice
Give lots of kisses and cuddles before you make a move on her sexual areas
Then gently rub, stroke, kiss her genitals dont rush
Remember that stimulation of the clitoris is the key to female orgasm
sometimes encourage her to be in charge, you can learn alot by watching how she stimulates herself or by listening to her suggestions
Anal Stimulation is an orgasm brought on by anal stimulation such as from anal sex or an inserted finger or a sex toy. In both sexes pleasure can be derived from the nerve endings around the anus and the anus itself. Hence anal-oral contact can still be pleasurable without stimulation of the clitoris
Breast and nipple stimulation
Some woman claim that stimulation of the breast area during sex and foreplay can create an orgasm. To find your perfect orgasmic partner go to mynaughtydate.co.uk

hayjack1 — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 10:55:37 +0000

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